So I have a photo in a gallery. How do I make it my profile photo?

Your profile photo is set separately from your gallery photos. To upload a pic for your main photo (which is also used as an avatar), you need to go to the Edit tab of your account settings and profile (Your Profile in the menu), make sure the Account settings subtab is selected, and then scroll down to where you see the section labelled Picture. Upload your profile picture there.

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