Site Tour - Private Messages
www.livingOUTthere.com has a private messaging facility that allows you to send eMails within the system to other members, and read messages sent to you.
Your inbox lists all the messages you've received (click for larger image). You can also create other folders to better keep track of your messages, and move messages to those folders. A "New" indicator shows which messages you've not read yet, and in your "Sent Items" folder, which of your messages that you've sent to other members they have not yet read. Whenever you get a new message, the "Messages" menu on the right changes colour, and shows the number of unread messages. You'll also get a notice in the content area telling you you've got mail!
If you're looking for more immediate interaction, you can always try the Chat feature.